Caring or scaring?

In relationships, people are either caring or scaring. Scaring or s-caring as u notice has caring within it. But there is also another element. That of instilling fear in order to control. What is the origin of that? The psychology in the words of the s-carer is "Life is so beyond my control and scary. If only u wil do exactly what i tell u to, i wil hav some element of control over life and i can b a little at ease."

So in relationships, when people start micromanaging their loved ones, they do it out of fear. Caring is unconditional love, support and compassion. Scaring has some caring in it but not a whole lot: It is as u can see for yourself all about the scarer and not u.