I will go to you when the weather is warm

 

This is the title of a Korean drama I am currently watching. Don’t worry, this article is not about how I am a self-professed K-drama addict. Anyway, suddenly I have started thinking of people in terms of seasons and weather conditions. I will try to explain this bizarre analogy that has popped into my mind.

Have you come across spring? This is when people are in full bloom and they are exuding such beauty and vitality that they are a joy to behold. We can spend a whole afternoon just gazing at their fresh visage and vivacious smile. The colours of their emotions are displayed with such vividness. The sparkle in their eyes ignites such warmth in our hearts. We wish they would linger for a while before their charms are beyond our horizon.

Then there is summer which comes calling with high temper. When things are laid bare and scorching words fly at us, we want to take shelter under a cool banyan tree. We perspire in the heat of the moment. Our hearts burn with such passion. Perhaps the gentle spatter of a summer rain can bring some coolness. May be a soft touch where our fingers meet relieves the tension. As life heats up, we want to flee but endure we must the harshness of summer so that new shades of ‘I’ can emerge.

With every rise, there is a fall. When autumn descends and people wither away, we shed tears. What was once full becomes so lean that it breaks our heart. Yet for a while, before your colours fade, let me hold you once more for another eternal moment. Let me listen to your sweet whispers before the silence sets in.

There is a sudden hail and life is drained of its serenity. Take shelter, lest these unexpected chunks of cold words smash our hearts. Let us pick up these dirty lumps and hurl them away before they become pools of slush through which we have to wade. Why hold on to something so fleeting?

Some people are like a treasure hidden away in the eye of a storm. We have to dodge many obstacles and fiery gusts of wind before we get to their heart of gold. Let us have the love and patience to see the beautiful soul amidst the spurt of fury and destruction. Don’t run away too far but stay safe until her rage abates and she shines in new splendour.

Before the harshness of winter sets in, let me melt in your balmy love and take in your flowery scent. Before the heart freezes in the brazenness of your tone, let me reminisce about these beautiful moments. As I meet your compassionate gaze, my inner landscape is lush with greenery welcoming your presence. Even in this dead of winter, I see the stirrings of life. There will be a new bloom and spring will again find its way.

See, I was not kidding when I told you that people remind me of the weather. So wait for yet a while and I will come to you when the weather is warm.

FROM MATTER TO SPIRIT

 

As human beings, we want to invest in our growth. Usually we focus on improving the physical or financial aspects of our life. We buy stocks and/or enrol in gyms for this purpose. However, it is also important to invest in psychological as well as spiritual growth. Education is an important means to achieve this. Connecting with resources that promote such growth becomes vital to lead a healthy life.

It has been about a century since the advent of Quantum physics. It is time to acknowledge the end of a materialistic world view. Although physics has laid rest to objectivity and factored in the importance of consciousness, other sciences seem to be lagging behind even now.  This has led to a schism.

As a society, we still pretend to be materialistic beings with solid bodies who need only good food, clothing, shelter and money to have a “good” life.  All the while, our minds are screaming out for someone to heed its woes. We fail to acknowledge how our emotions are all over the place. We have no clue what can provide us with happiness. In the race to gather more amenities, we fall ill. We look to our body to give us an indication as to the source of our sickness. We spend most of the money we earn for this purpose. We get hooked on anything that can help hide our pain.

In a bid to cope with our disease, we may become TV or social media junkies or get addicted to cigarettes, alcohol, drugs, religion or sex. Some suck their thumbs, others fall in and out of relationships or jobs or gurus, some others overeat or undereat. With the dawn of COVID and the social isolation that followed, we have become adept at putting on a false face.

In this era of texting, we are not obliged to show our faces or reveal our body language. Our emotional health is known only to us. We define ourselves through the hallowed statements we make about ourselves. People are for the first time obliged to concur with our limited ideas about ourselves. There is no other clue available to contest our claims. Our level of empathy cannot be gauged. Those who are empathically disabled cannot be recognized. There are no safeguards to emotional exploitation in the virtual space.

People are confused, depressed and anxious. We may have enough money or food or power to have a “successful” life. However, it is hard to find anyone around us who is genuinely happy. It is time to recognize that we are spiritual beings with bodies and not the other way around. As such, we need to first familiarize ourselves with who we truly are. Self-awareness is the need of the hour. Even a car mechanic will first study what a car is made up of, before repairing it. Shouldn’t we know who we are, before aspiring to lead healthy lives? Our educational system needs to reorient itself to such a rising need.

Who can address this? Mental health specialists, counsellors, social workers, psychologists, and spiritually-awakened souls have to step into this vacuum. Beyond the body and our limited imaginations, there are aspects to us that need to be acknowledged and utilized. Only through such a wholesome approach can we rise to our full potential as human beings and build a blissful future.